Decompile and customize a FLASH applet ( minor changes )

I have a web application with me made of FLASH and PHP of which I need to modify the flash part according to my needs. Here is the url : [login to view URL] This is a very simple job and i want to modify the top bar of the flash applet where it says "choose a gender" and "chat with a girl or boy" etc. I want to provide those details from PHP script side to the FLASH applet so that the person loses the option to choose their gender etc. I need this done urgently and professionally , so please get back to me if you can do this quickly.