Blacklist to Whitelist Software Tools

My domain has been blacklisted by mistake after sending emails to a list of contacts i have accumulated over 10 years. If blacklisting is due to the email trap: I need: 1] a method to detect whether or not an email is a trap email,[honey pot trap or farm?] 2] assistance removing the trap emails; 3] testing the list again for unsubscribers using double opt-out; 4] Remove the unsubscribers AND a recommendation for web and mail hosting and bulk-email to prevent this recurrence. Please provide examples of your work. I would like for this person to also have experience with: newsletter design and distribution RSS Feed to Email and Email to RSS Feed and Email to Blog Please provide examples of your work. I'm looking for the highest level of Competence and Trustworthiness. Freelancer.com will verify. If you do not provide examples of your work do not bid. You will be rejected.