We all would like to live a happy, healthy and fulfilled life, yet few seem to be able to do just that. Why must we have so much suffering, failures and disappointments? We just want to be secure in a loving relationship and a satisfying job with a good income and enjoy ourselves. I believe that there is a way out of this depressing jungle of negativity and disappointments. I actually believe that we can make a decision to have a happy, fulfilled life and then really do it. Life without suffering, love without pain, living without struggle, and these all things can be possible. What I cannot promise is that it will be easy. It needs either willpower and determination or the help of good friends. We can be happy or at least accepting in adversity and unhappy when we seem to have everything. What decides how we will react and how we will feel inside?