Website like Hi5 / Friendster / openBC

Hello, I need the basic functionality of an already existing website called "openBC.com", which is comparable (but more professional) to [login to view URL] and [login to view URL]: 1. A homepage with information, what the website is all about. Should be editable through a simple administrative backend. 2. Create/Sign-up for a new account. 3. Login to personal account, first page after login: homepage showing news, latest users that signed up, 2nd degree contacts - just as in openBC. 4. See a couple of statistics on the homepage (some can be seen by users, some only by admins as on openBC). 5. Edit personal data (upload picture!). 6. Be able to add contacts when running across their profile or by searching for them, as in openBC.com. 7. Search for other members by name, branch, company, country, interests etc. (as in [login to view URL]). 8. See who looked at my profile within the last 7 days, see who signed up last, etc. - basically the stats that openBC also has. 9. See who knows whom - visually as in openBC, Hi5 and Friendster. 10. Send and receive messages to/from other members. 11. The layout should be functional and easy to customize by our graphic designers - a templating system is a must. 12. Language: Java, Database: Oracle, Used framework, preferred: Tapestry, alternatively: Struts (v1.2) or Spring 13. Preferrebly a Portlet-based approach (such as [login to view URL]) should be used so we can easily extend the functionality 14. The system should be customizable, meaning: I would like to specify which group of users (paying, not paying; payment mechanisms will come later, but the system should be ready for usergroups) can use which functionality (ex: only paying members should be able to send and receive messages). This should be customizable by the administrator in the backend. Basically all operations/functionalities/actions on the website should reside in the database and a check should be run if the currently logged in user can perform this action. 15. There should also be administrative frontends for all functionalities, such as editing the news on the frontpage (before login), the news on the homepage (after login), the member details etc.. An integrated CMS (a very basic one) is a must. 16. I would also like to know how the process goes. Do I get to see the progress by installing your latest "achievements" periodically so I can evaluate it and give you feedback or do only I get a finished product at the end? 17. Please include your perception of the project's description in your bid so I can see if we're talking about the same functionality. I do NOT need the webdesign, I only need the programming as I have my own webdesigner! The programming artifact should be a WAR-file that I can deploy into my Tomcat. All visual artifacts (JSP-pages etc.) should be template based. NO hard-coded Java into JSP-pages. Please use Tapestry (preferred) or Struts. The code MUST be very clean and adhere to the latest programming standards. Documented code is a MUST! Thank you very much!