302389 Email Utility Merge/Validation

Programmer needed to develop program for easy upload of email addresses from Excel to Outlook and/or Eudora or an Email Client suggested by the Programmer ---BUT prefer the program to have an embedded SMTP relay. This will be a MASS Email program with the ability to work with 50,000+ Email Addresses for Mail Merging of Email Marketing Campaigns. Program must produce personalized, and customizable e-mails and upon return receipt of Email being opened / validated, program must automatically create a new Excel spreadsheet of the Email addresses that reached and were viewed by recipients. (validated) Further, Program must have an EASY removal system for those who request removal of their email address. Once people register on our website (which is being developed in MYSQL (I think), I need those addresses to go into the SAME Email System from our website. However for Marketing purposes, we will start with those who are NOT registered on our website. Would like the program to have an embedded SMTP relay, so we do not need to use the SMTP relay server of our ISP. Email program should provide instant feedback on every email sent, and then delete those invalid email addresses from our mailing list, creating a new mailing list with only validated emails. This program should be EASY to Install, Easy to work with, and the Programmer must have a good command of the English Language to give me a Step by Step "walk-through" of the product, with specific instructions. Please do not reply with a canned reply, please read ALL the requirements and respond to Each detail and your capabilities. The final product should be easy to use, user friendly and ready to it the ground running- glitch free. If you've developed a similar program, please send me a screen shot and or link to a web-based sample. I require quality technology and a user friendly design. I would expect a product like this to be completed, tested and delivered with walkthrough Instructions in less than 45 days. **Please note, I will also be posting another job for an Email Address data mining program from the web. Also known as Email Spiders, Email Extractors, Email Harvesters, and Email Miners. This will be searching emails from the WEB (not specific URL's) If this is your area of expertise, please bid on that job as well.